In a medium size saucepan add the oil until it is about 1/2 inch up the sides of the pan. Heat to medium high heat. Slice the tomatoes 1/4 inch thick.
In a small bowl add the eggs and whisk. Add in the milk. In another small bowl add the flour, salt and pepper. In another small bowl add the cornmeal, bread crumbs, and parmesan cheese.
Dredge each tomato slice first in the eggs, then coat in the flour, and lastly the cornmeal mix. Add the tomatoes to the pan of oil and cook for 2-3 minutes until crispy and golden brown. Remove with a slotted spoon and let cool.